How to Find a Coach You Can Trust with Matthew Riven

April 21, 20261 min read

How to Find a Coach You Can Trust with Matthew Riven

The coaching industry is more visible than ever—and more confusing. Today, almost anyone can call themselves a coach, which makes it harder than ever to know who actually brings skill, depth, and real impact. What used to signal experience and credibility now covers everything from highly trained professionals to people with little more than an opinion. The result? If you’re not careful, you can waste time, money, and trust on the wrong person.

In this episode of She Is a Leader, Matthew Riven cuts through the noise. He breaks down why the word “coach” has become so diluted, how to spot the red flags most people miss, and what actually separates meaningful coaching from surface-level advice—or outright manipulation. More importantly, he shows you what real coaching looks like: curiosity over control, questions over answers, and a focus on building your independence, not your reliance.

If you’re thinking about hiring a coach—or already have—this episode gives you a sharper lens. You’ll walk away knowing what to look for, what to avoid, and how to recognize the kind of coaching that actually creates change. No hype. No quick fixes. Just a clearer understanding of what works—and what doesn’t—in an industry that rarely explains itself.

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Podcast: She Is A Leader

Matthew Riven

Matthew Riven is a transformational coach working at the intersection of emotional intelligence, relationships, power dynamics, and desire. With certifications in Transactional Analysis and re-decision work, along with training as a Professional Dom, Matthew helps people break the patterns that hold them back, communicate with clarity, and lead from a place of grounded power. His work guides clients to stop living the life they think they ‘should,’ and start living the life they truly desire.

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While the activity here may sound like ‘therapy’ it is not, and should not take the place of working with a licensed therapist.