Stir Institute Services

The STIR Institute welcomes individuals and couples of all s_xes, genders, and orientations, including those in monogamous and non-monogamous relationships. Whether you're exploring polyamory, open relationships, or simply seeking clarity in your romantic life, we are here to support you every step of the way.

Our sessions are carefully curated to cater to a diverse range of needs and preferences:

Talking Sessions: Engage in open and meaningful conversations to explore your thoughts, emotions, and desires in a safe and non-judgmental space.
Somatic Work: Experience the transformative power of somatic therapy techniques to release tension, trauma, and emotional blocks stored within your body.
Relationship Building: Strengthen your connections with yourself and others through guided exercises and activities designed to enhance intimacy, communication, and trust.
Trauma Healing: Receive compassionate support and guidance to process and heal from past traumas, empowering you to move forward with resilience and self-awareness.
Conscious K!nk Exploration: Delve into the world of conscious k!nk with respect, consent, and intentionality, exploring your boundaries, desires, and power dynamics.

Contact us today to learn more about our current offerings!

Current clients, please go to the portal to continue your work

Growth Sessions:

Our Growth Sessions are tailored to meet your needs, offering individual and couples options:

During our sessions, we create a safe and nurturing environment where you can explore your deepest thoughts, emotions, and desires. Together, we'll build a foundation of trust, allowing you to confront and embrace the parts of yourself that may feel challenging or elusive.

In our initial sessions, we'll work collaboratively to develop a personalized plan based on your current situation and your aspirations for the future. As we progress, we'll continuously adapt and refine our approach to address any obstacles or opportunities for growth that arise.

Whether you prefer in-office sessions or virtual meetings, we accommodate your preferences. We're also happy to meet you at a location of your choice, whether it's a coffee shop, restaurant, or outdoor setting. For those outside our local area, we offer remote sessions via Zoom or Teams, and travel arrangements can be made upon request.

Contact us today to schedule your Growth Session and begin your journey toward personal transformation and fulfillment.

If you are interested, in learning how we can help, schedule your preliminary call here.

Current clients, please go to the portal to continue your work

Group Sessions:

Structure and Pricing: Group sessions are tailored to the specific needs of each group and pricing varies accordingly.

In our group sessions, individuals and couples (or throuples, etc.) come together in a supportive and nurturing environment to address shared challenges and pursue personal growth. These sessions provide a unique opportunity to connect with others, share experiences, and work towards common goals in a supportive and guided setting.

Participants engage in open discussions, guided activities, and therapeutic exercises designed to meet the diverse needs of the group members. Our group sessions offer a safe space for exploration, learning, and growth, allowing individuals to journey alongside others who are facing similar experiences. Research has shown that treatment often progresses more rapidly in a structured group environment.

Join us in our Group Sessions to connect with like-minded individuals, gain valuable insights, and accelerate your path towards personal transformation and fulfillment. Contact us to learn more about upcoming group sessions and reserve your spot today.

Current clients, please go to the portal to continue your work

Conscious K!nk Training:

Structure and pricing is tailored to suit the specific needs and preferences of the event.

Experience the transformative power of Conscious K!nk Training

At the STIR Institute, Matthew Riven offers comprehensive training sessions in Conscious K!nk and BD$M for individuals, couples, and groups. These immersive experiences, ranging from a few hours to several days, delve into mindfulness, intentionality, personal growth, and self-awareness.

In our training sessions, we explore desires, boundaries, and power dynamics in a consensual and respectful manner, placing a strong emphasis on communication, consent, and emotional safety. The outcomes extend far beyond the training room, leading to deeper connections, a richer exploration of your s_xuality and desires, and significant personal growth.

Join us for Conscious K!nk Training and unlock new dimensions of intimacy, connection, and self-discovery. Contact us to inquire about upcoming training events and embark on a journey of profound transformation.

Current clients, please go to the portal to schedul your next lesson

PROFESSIONAL PLUS ONE:

Looking for the perfect plus one for your next event?

Whether it's a night at the ballet, an evening at the theater, or trying out the latest restaurant, Matthew Riven is your ideal companion. Need a date for a wedding or a work event? Matthew is at your service.

Not only does he own a tuxedo, but he also knows his way around fine dining, including how to properly pronounce dishes like duck confit. With him by your side, you'll not only enjoy the event but also make a memorable impression.

Contact us to arrange for Matthew to accompany you to your next event and elevate your experience to new heights.

Current clients, please go to the portal to schedule our next adventure

Free 30 Minute Discovery Call:

Use this link to schedule a free 30-minute Discovery Call with Matthew Riven. A no-pressure to call to see if what the STIR Institute offers is right for you. We are happy to dive deeper into how we can support you, as we learn about what you are seeking.

While the activity here may sound like ‘therapy’ it is not, and should not take the place of working with a licensed therapist.